Lead without Title!!!

While sipping my machine coffee with my ‘Tiger crunch’, my friend pinged me on my office communicator, she was very disturbed. She questioned me something that is not very relevant to the majority of the population. To some it might not even look like an issue.

Let me ask you one question:

Do you feel, at times that your ideology is totally different from the people around you????

Do you feel that your interest area is nobody’s concern?

If the answer is yes, then, Congratulations!!!!! Definitely you come into the Minority.

As the saying goes:

“A best times are always found when Friends and Family gather round”

What if, these best times turns out to be a frustrating conversation where people failed to understand.

Though people still talk to you, a feeling of social outcast prevails, somewhere, in your mind. There are few people with whom you can share your ideology.

But then who cares!

Anyways, she felt that her too much zeal for life, for her career and for herself, irritates people and sometimes depress them or make them laugh.

I would rather say. “Welcome to the club!!”

Well! First of all accept it, that we are different from the crowd, we have a never ending zeal and we truly believe that one day we will make it big.

A huge round of applause for us!!!!!

Then,garner the courage to stand apart.

It’s not easy, it will never come easy. People will laugh, mock about you and even ignore you. 

Only 5% of population in this world have made it to the top and they all were once outcast by the people around them

Optimism and enthusiasm fills us with ideas and solutions towards every problem in our life, it gives us the perspective to see the problem from a different dimension.

One more thing that makes us different, is that we are gifted. At times this works against us, we start talking without realizing that the other person is not interested.

Observe people around you, observe who cares and wants to listen to you.

Don’t give suggestions or advice to every other person. Even though they make mistakes let them do.

Well, this could be just one aspect of being outcast.

There could be many more reasons that make you feel outcast.

For such reasons, only one perspective, listen to your inner-self, be more accepting towards what people think of you and keep working towards your goal.

Soon, you will become a part of the 5% population.

Then, it’s your turn…….Laugh!!

Destiny

Recently, I saw a very interesting movie where a girl and guy drift away from each other, in order to test their love. Initially I found it very absurd and illogical.Their idea was to check, whether they were meant to be or not.

Somewhere, somehow we all do this to ourselves in our daily life, where we assume that certain things didn’t happen to us because of our very own destiny.

If it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be.

We all tend to get derelict towards our life and fail to notice that every day is a new day. Every day gives us the opportunity to mend things, to make things right.

But, we tend to ignore these little gifts that we get every day.

Anyways, the very next day, the aunt of that girl introduced her to a guy who turns out to be the same person.

Destiny!!!!Sure???

Is destiny about waiting for the right person, right moment, right opportunity???

what else can we do…..?

No, destiny never expects you to sit and watch. It expects you to carry an indefatigable attitude towards life.

It expects you to get up and show up every time and see how the story ends.

Destiny is to build the bridge between you and your dreams.

And for that you have to have the wherewithal to achieve anything you want in life….so just stop waiting and get set go!

PS: If that day both of them wouldn’t have shown up at the restaurant, they wouldn’t have been together.

                                        

A very hilarious incident happened yesterday, coming out of the wash-room.

I happen to see a colleague.Well! A ‘colleague’ here means, a person whom I have met once and I am familiar with the face.

As a normal greeting, I greeted him saying ‘Hi!’, and he returned a‘Hello!’

I generally do this, because this is the least you can do when it comes to greeting somebody. That too when you are walking and not thinking of stopping by and asking any further questions.

But, he didn't stop there and ask, “How are you?” By the time I turned to reply, “I am fine”, he has already moved on in his direction.

It was an awkward and  hilarious situation.

We all will admit that most of us  have come across such people in our daily life.

But, my query is, what are we supposed to do in this situation?

Should, we just walk on too without replying because he/she is not anyways interested? Or

Should, we reply irrespective of anything?

 I guess we need some solutions here:

1.  Don’t say ‘Hi’ in your response. Straight away ask, ‘how are you’? This will automatically put the ball in their court. Now the’I-am-fine’ headache is their.

2.Just smile, this is the fastest response you can give at that particular time.

3.Just don’t reply. Isn't it common sense? I am alive, which means I am fine.

4.Just stop, ask them to stop, and make them hear a ‘I am Fine’, so that next time, they don’t dare ask you such a silly thing.

These are my suggestions to people suffering from the“I am not given enough time to say I am fine” syndrome.

Please pour in your suggestions or at least send this to those who do this to you!!!