Lead without Title!!!

While sipping my machine coffee with my ‘Tiger crunch’, my friend pinged me on my office communicator, she was very disturbed. She questioned me something that is not very relevant to the majority of the population. To some it might not even look like an issue.

Let me ask you one question:

Do you feel, at times that your ideology is totally different from the people around you????

Do you feel that your interest area is nobody’s concern?

If the answer is yes, then, Congratulations!!!!! Definitely you come into the Minority.

As the saying goes:

“A best times are always found when Friends and Family gather round”

What if, these best times turns out to be a frustrating conversation where people failed to understand.

Though people still talk to you, a feeling of social outcast prevails, somewhere, in your mind. There are few people with whom you can share your ideology.

But then who cares!

Anyways, she felt that her too much zeal for life, for her career and for herself, irritates people and sometimes depress them or make them laugh.

I would rather say. “Welcome to the club!!”

Well! First of all accept it, that we are different from the crowd, we have a never ending zeal and we truly believe that one day we will make it big.

A huge round of applause for us!!!!!

Then,garner the courage to stand apart.

It’s not easy, it will never come easy. People will laugh, mock about you and even ignore you. 

Only 5% of population in this world have made it to the top and they all were once outcast by the people around them

Optimism and enthusiasm fills us with ideas and solutions towards every problem in our life, it gives us the perspective to see the problem from a different dimension.

One more thing that makes us different, is that we are gifted. At times this works against us, we start talking without realizing that the other person is not interested.

Observe people around you, observe who cares and wants to listen to you.

Don’t give suggestions or advice to every other person. Even though they make mistakes let them do.

Well, this could be just one aspect of being outcast.

There could be many more reasons that make you feel outcast.

For such reasons, only one perspective, listen to your inner-self, be more accepting towards what people think of you and keep working towards your goal.

Soon, you will become a part of the 5% population.

Then, it’s your turn…….Laugh!!