I DON'T LIKE....

                                                                          

Sometimes people are unable to understand the dilemma of life. Exactly, bole toh, what's happening to them..
It's time,we all need to do some soul searching.
Now what exactly is soul searching?
It is about being 100% honest with yourself. As we all know, that we have a conscious and sub-conscious level in our mind. Conscious level is from where we think what is right and what is wrong.It is governed by rules, rules made by society, family or can be your own(out of experience). Sometimes we follow these rules and sometimes we don't. 
Subconscious level is the inner layer, of which people generally don't feel any need or pay any heed. That is the level, where your reality lies. The purpose of life is not just to determine right and wrong. 
There is no right and no wrong. It is what suits you becomes your right and wrong.
So, to dwell into your subconscious mind and to identify what exactly you want out of your life and what you want to make of it, is the quest we all embark on. Or, we can say the very purpose of life!!
A very frequent question that people ask me:

"Beta gyaan toh de diya , yeh bh toh bta kaise"

Well, Its very simple. All you need to do, is to hit and try. Now, that doesn't sound easy. Definitely not, but its fun, and the fun element makes it easy.

Do something new everyday or try something new everyday(everyday sounds difficult again...make it alternative days or weekly).This will keep your mind active, and on the right track of your quest.It will inspire you everyday and satisfy you. You may not know what you like, but you will definitely know,what you dislike. This is the very first step, of Soul Searching.

A very recent experience where I was unable to fit into my jeans, and when I managed to, I seriously disliked the shape of my jeans. So, instead of buying new one(as bankruptcy is the in-thing now days), I decided to hit the gym for instant results. My very close friend 'S' warned me....some zillion times...I was like let me try. I tried for 3 days, and after 3 days I got to know what I don't like!!

And went back to my previous love, nature/park/jogging/walking!! Sometimes, to know what you like , you need to know what you don't like...So come out of your comfort zone and play with your dislikes!

Again....

"Free advice hai ....lena hai toh lelo warna chod do"